Friday, November 20, 2009

Along got 5As


Along got 5As in his upsr.. after going thru 2 mths of the longest worrying waiting ever -every single soul in the family except for Adib (but i did explain to him so that he's able to share the joyous spirit all of us is having at this moment).


It is not that we dont have our trust in Along but he is a real "bum"...major lazy bukan sikit sikit...i have written before about this one flaw of his character...he is one smart boy , we know that all along but his laziness is his major enemy and that what worries us...from early of the year, we always have this "what if" situation when talking about Afi and UPSR...


I am so worried that i cant bring myslef to write anything about UPSR until today....i was basically counting days and a lot of prayers went along with it.

My concern is actually more on Along himslef...how is he going to react if he doesnt get that 5As, what he's going to feel about his own self...that's what playing in my mind ...serabut sgt..I told him a few times, whatever will be the result just come home....the media to certain extend affects my thinking...just cant help it!In other words I am trying to get him to undersatnd that upsr is not everything

Nevertheless, if only he doesnt get the 5As-- I also want him to know that it is not ok to be lazy--see how complicated the situation!


A few times, Afi told me and everybody ( tok mimah, aki and all) that we have to redha kalau tak de rezeki...so i told him, if you had really studied --we can apply that :"tak de rezeki situation" but in your case...being lazy is just unacceptable....still redha tapi tetap terkilan!


Alhamdulillah the turmoil is over.....and he got his 5As.Everyone is tremendously relieved..kah..kah..kah.... mummy, abah, afi himself, angah, adib and all..

It's not easy being the first child, and first grandson for both sides...huh...sian Along! The phone was like hotlines!


Here are the reactions from the floor:
Mummy---- i cried!


Angah----Angah went to school with Aki to see the result and his comment is the best of all "Mummy, Angah rasa nak pecah badan bila dengar nama Along was announced"...know what Angah told us that he prayed daily for Along's result...and he kept reminding Along "Along kalau tak dapat 5A, Angah tendang Along".


Abah---they hugged and Afi being Afi had tears in his eyes....


Adib---adib cakap "Adib tahu Along dapat 5A and 5A tu menang"


Over dinner today....Abah: engkau lain kali jgn malas sangat..ni Allah bagi peluang but there may not be another time.

Mummy: kalau Afi belajar - we will not be so worried and kite redha with whatever result you may get...


To our Dearest Along, congratulations and we are so proud of you! Yes I am one proud mum!

4 comments:

Ejin said...

so touching posting nie hehehe bet now semua lega...yes, being anak sulung and cucu sulung is HARD! To the proud mummy - well done, boleh take a breather until giliran angah plak ambik upsr hehehe

Liz Duan said...

hang pun cucu sulung ye ejin..sama lah kiter he...he..he..tahun angah amik upsr...aku akan suffer nervous break down...sebab Along akan amik PMR in the same year...trauma lah aku!

Ejin said...

kah kah kah ...that is the clincher! sah2 tak tido malam nak tunggu results along and angah nanti hehehe

fendifid said...

No matter how hard we try to pretend it is OK kalau tak dapat 5A(TIPUUUUUUU) but the reality is deep down in our heart we already buried a trunk to hide our HOPE.
Sebab tu terus trauma biler result tak seperti yang di harapkan. Syukur, Ahmad Afi berjaya. Relief to everyone.